Sitting the Month with Strength

Honouring Your Body’s Journey Through a Hong Kong Lens

As a women's health physiotherapist born and raised in Hong Kong, I walk between two worlds of healing every day. In my clinic, I see the powerful desire of Hong Kong women to care for themselves in a way that is both globally informed and culturally rooted. The question I often hear is not "Should I follow tradition?" but "How can I honour it while ensuring my body recovers its strength for my new life as a mother?"

This is where I see not a gap, but a beautiful opportunity for harmony.

The Deep Wisdom of "坐月" (Confinement)

First, let me honour the profound wisdom of our traditions. "坐月" is centred on warmth, rest, nourishment, and protecting the mother's long-term health—her "氣" (qi) and vitality. These principles are not outdated; they are a testament to the deep, holistic care for the postpartum body. The focus on restoration is something I, as a physiotherapist, deeply respect and incorporate into every recovery plan.

A Modern Partnership: Adding Movement as Nourishment

Where my expertise can partner with this wisdom is in the method of restoration. Complete stillness, while protective, can sometimes lead to stiffness, weakness, and a sense of disconnection from a body that has just performed the miracle of birth.

Think of gentle, specific movement and therapy as another form of nourishing "補" (tonification):

Pelvic floor rehabilitation is about restoring the foundation that supports your organs—aligning perfectly with the goal of preserving long-term vitality.

Gentle core restoration after abdominal separation is about knitting your centre back together, rebuilding your inner strength.

Scar tissue management (for C-section or perineal tears) is about ensuring the body heals smoothly and comfortably, without internal tightness.

Safe movement improves circulation, which in TCM terms supports healthy blood flow and "氣" circulation, aiding the body's own healing processes.

Your Personal Blueprint: A Fusion of Wisdom

My role is not to override your family's care, but to add a layer of specialised, physical support that works in concert with it. We can:

Reframe Movement as Healing: We design "confinement-friendly" exercises that can be done in the warmth of your home, focusing on breath and gentle engagement, not exertion.

Bridge the Conversation: I can provide you with the physiological "why" behind gentle rehabilitation, helping you communicate with your family. For example, "This is to help my body's circulation and energy flow better, so the nourishing foods and rest can be even more effective."

Address the Unspoken: We create a private, professional space to address concerns often shrouded in silence: bladder control, painful intercourse, or lingering aches, so you can return to all aspects of your life with confidence.

To the modern Hong Kong woman: You do not have to choose between your heritage and your health. You can sit the month and feel empowered in your body. You can honour the wisdom of your elders and apply the latest evidence for your recovery.

Let's build a postpartum plan that respects your past, cares for your present, and strengthens your future—all under the shared principle of nurturing you, wholly.


繁體中文版本 

坐月與力量同行:從香港視角看您的產後身心之旅

身為一位在香港成長的女性健康物理治療師,我每天都見證著兩種養生哲學的交匯。在診所裡,我看見香港女性渴望以一種既具國際視野、又深植本土文化的方式來照顧自己。她們常問的問題不是:「我應該跟隨傳統嗎?」而是:「我可以如何在尊重傳統的同時,也讓身體重拾力量,迎接作為母親的新生活?」

對我而言,這不是一個矛盾,而是一個讓古今和諧共融的美麗契機。

「坐月」的深層智慧

首先,我想向我們的傳統智慧致敬。「坐月」的核心在於溫暖、休養、滋養,以及保護母親的長遠健康——她的「氣」與生命力。這些原則並不過時,反而展現出對產後身體的深層關懷。作為物理治療師,我深深認同並融會這種「修復」的精神於每一個康復方案之中。

現代的合作:讓運動作成為另一種滋養

傳統中的靜養固然重要,但完全的靜養也可能導致關節僵硬、肌肉乏力,甚至與自己剛經歷分娩奇蹟的身體產生疏離感。

其實我們可以把溫和、針對性的運動治療看作另一種「補」的方式:

骨盤底肌肉復康是重建支撐內臟器官的基礎,這與保養長遠活力的理念完美契合。

針對腹直肌分離的核心修復,有助重新連結身心,重建內在力量。

針對剖腹產或會陰撕裂的疤痕護理,目的是確保身體適當癒合,避免內部組織黏連繃緊。

安全的動作可促進血液循環,從中醫角度看,有助「氣血暢通」,促進身體自我修復的過程。

個人化計劃:融合東西方智慧的康復旅程

我的角色不是取代家人的照護,而是增添一層專業、針對個人需要的支援,並與傳統照顧並行。

我們可以一起:

重新定義「運動」:設計「坐月友善」的動作,可於家中進行,以呼吸與溫和地喚醒肌肉為主,而非劇烈消耗。

搭建溝通橋樑: 我可以為您解釋溫和復康背後的生理學原理,幫助您與家人溝通,例如:「這樣做能讓我的血運行得更順暢,令食補與休息更有效。」

面對難以啟齒的困擾:我們提供一個私密、安全的專業空間,處理那些常被沉默處理的問題:如膀胱控制、產後性接觸疼痛或持續的痠痛,讓您能自信地重拾生活的各個方面。

致現代香港女性:您無需在傳統文化與人健康之間二選一。您可以「坐月」的同時,感受身體煥發的能量。既可以尊重長輩的智慧,同時利用實證醫學支持產後復原。

讓我們以「全人滋養」為核心原則一起為您打造一個尊重過去、關顧當下、鞏固未來的產後復原計劃。


普通话版本 

坐月与力量同行:从香港视角看您的产后身心之旅

身为一位在香港成长的女性健康物理治疗师,我每天都见证着两种养生哲学的交汇。在诊所里,我看见香港女性渴望以一种既具国际视野、又深植本土文化的方式来照顾自己。她们常问的问题不是:「我应该跟随传统吗?」而是:「我可以如何在尊重传统的同时,也让身体重拾力量,迎接作为母亲的新生活?」

对我而言,这不是一个矛盾,而是一个让古今和谐共融的美丽契机。

「坐月」的深层智慧

首先,我想向我们的传统智慧致敬。「坐月」的核心在于温暖、休养、滋养,以及保护母亲的长远健康——她的「气」与生命力。这些原则并不过时,反而展现出对产后身体的深层关怀。作为物理治疗师,我深深认同并融会这种「修复」的精神于每一个康复方案之中。

现代的合作:让运动作成为另一种滋养

传统中的静养固然重要,但完全的静养也可能导致关节僵硬、肌肉乏力,甚至与自己刚经历分娩奇迹的身体产生疏离感。

其实我们可以把温和、针对性的运动治疗看作另一种「补」的方式:

骨盘底肌肉复康是重建支撑内脏器官的基础,这与保养长远活力的理念完美契合。

针对腹直肌分离的核心修复,有助重新连结身心,重建内在力量。

针对剖腹产或会阴撕裂的疤痕护理,目的是确保身体适当愈合,避免内部组织黏连绷紧。

安全的动作可促进血液循环,从中医角度看,有助「气血畅通」,促进身体自我修复的过程。

个人化计划:融合东西方智慧的康复旅程

我的角色不是取代家人的照护,而是增添一层专业、针对个人需要的支持,并与传统照顾并行。

我们可以一起:

重新定义「运动」:设计「坐月友善」的动作,可于家中进行,以呼吸与温和地唤醒肌肉为主,而非剧烈消耗。

搭建沟通桥梁: 我可以为您解释温和复康背后的生理学原理,帮助您与家人沟通,例如:「这样做能让我的血运行得更顺畅,令食补与休息更有效。」

面对难以启齿的困扰:我们提供一个私密、安全的专业空间,处理那些常被沉默处理的问题:如膀胱控制、产后性接触疼痛或持续的酸痛,让您能自信地重拾生活的各个方面。

致现代香港女性:您无需在传统文化与人健康之间二选一。您可以「坐月」的同时,感受身体焕发的能量。既可以尊重长辈的智慧,同时利用实证医学支持产后复原。

让我们以「全人滋养」为核心原则一起为您打造一个尊重过去、关顾当下、巩固未来的产后复原计划。

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